. >> you had a great quote by kurt vonnegut we're here to fart around until the day -- >> exactly. >> one of the chapters that resonate with me was -- [inaudible] -- and ancient -- and back in my early 20s i get to really involved with the pickup artist community and two books were bibles and that was neil strauss' the game, i think your friend, and your books, sex at dawn. i found a bunch of young men who were just painfully irrelevant or feel so, at least. >> irrelevant. >> yeah. and i was wondering, you both have completely different world views. the pickup community has a world view of getting to the top of an hierarchy and that's how you -- that's your mating strategy and you have probably had plenty of success not with that mating strategy but i don't know when you're sexual memoir book is coming out but -- >> down the road. >> that's the last book, right? but i guess what i want to ask is if you had a ton of-the-guys in this room right now, knowing they're suffering because they are lacking something they feel they need in in and that society has stripped from them. what would
